Never thought I would
miss my six year old alarm clock.
As noted in my weekly update last week my 6 year old niece
and 9 year old nephew stayed with us over the weekend while their baby sister
was born. Ella wanted to sleep with me
in my bed. We had a great time but she
sure likes to get up early and no matter what she will not let you sleep
in. She would shake me and whisper
loudly in my ear “Time to get up Lisa” each morning. It was great on Monday when I needed to get
to work but Saturday and Sunday are my sleep in days so I was not super excited
to get up. However, when you have a
sweet 6 year old begging you to play with her you get up and just start the
day.
I know what a broken
rib feels like
Friday during lunch I had my bi-monthly massage. We are trying to get my back and shoulders
aligned to their proper position and to relieve some stress and pain I have
been experiencing. I had a new massage
therapist who was filling in for my regular therapist. She was able to work out a massive knot but
then suggested she work on my diaphragm and ribs. It really hurt as she was massaging the
muscles but I felt an immediate release that felt great afterward. On Saturday morning I felt the worst of it
though. My lower ribs felt like they had
been broken. It hurt to breathe and to
lay down. It also hurt to lay on my back
because of the work that had been done there as well. I had to sleep on my side which is not very
comfortable for me. Sunday afternoon
the pain had eased quite a bit and I started to feel the good results. Today (Monday) my posture is better and the
pain in my back and neck is almost gone.
My ribs are still a little sore but I can breathe a lot deeper which
means my ribs and diaphragm are closer to their correct position.
RSL Game- Another Life List
Item Completed
On Saturday July 20th I finally got to go to a
Real Salt Lake soccer game in the new stadium.
I have wanted to attend a game since the stadium opened. I love soccer. Actually I love watching any sport live so I
was super excited. My brother Trent has
season tickets and one of his friends was not able to go. Trent’s wife Anne was not feeling good so he
asked if I wanted to go with him. The
stadium is pretty amazing. It doesn’t
feel like it should be sitting in the middle of a small city like Sandy Utah. The game was pretty sad. The referee’s missed a lot of calls and in
the end they were supposed to only add an extra 5 minutes but ended up going to
7 minutes with the opposing team scoring in the 7th minute. It was horrible. However, I still enjoyed it. They had an amazing fireworks show after for
the Pioneer Day celebration. We were
able to go down and sit on the field.
Trent and I found a spot in the middle of the field which turned out to
be perfect. The fireworks were super
close and felt like they were going to fall on us. It was the best show I have seen since
Disneyland’s Christmas and Halloween fireworks shows.

Overall it was a pretty good week. After 5 years I finally figured out a work
routine that makes me feel like I am getting everything completed each day. I discovered that I am the type of person who
needs a checklist that I can mark off each day.
I have been struggling to enjoy my job lately. I just feel so overwhelmed and
unorganized. I have used my checklist
for three days now and it has made a huge difference for me. I actually enjoy my work again and feel like
I am accomplishing more work than I have in months. I find that I am able to get everything done
and still have about an hour at the end of each day to go over the lower
priority items and get ready for the next day’s tasks. Now if I could figure out how to do this with
my housework.
I am still having a lot of emotional days. I miss my old apartment a lot and I am ready
to be back out on my own. I miss the
dating scene and want so much to find a companion. I have come to realize that I may not be
able to have children this late in life and I am okay with that. But I am not giving up on finding a companion
to share my life with. I am lonely and
tired of being single. I want to start
my own traditions and enjoy my life with someone. It has been especially hard for me lately and
I am worried that it is not going to happen.
I am not sure what I will do if I stay single for my life here on this
earth.